Who Needs Friends: An Unscientific Examination of Male Friendship Across America

Andrew McCarthy

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Who Needs Friends: An Unscientific Examination of Male Friendship Across America

Who Needs Friends: An Unscientific Examination of Male Friendship Across America

Andrew McCarthy

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A moving and provocative exploration of male friendship and loneliness, from New York Times bestselling author, filmmaker, and actor Andrew McCarthy as he crisscrosses the country to reconnect with his friends.

"You don't really have any friends, do you, Dad?"

A seemingly innocuous, if direct, question from Andrew McCarthy's son left him reeling. McCarthy did have friends, but like so many other men, the necessities of modern adult life had forced his friendships to the background. At one point his friends had been instrumental in broadening his horizons, bolstering his courage, providing safe harbor. Now, McCarthy found himself questioning what had happened to those friendships, whether he needed them, what he valued, and what he had to offer. A simple question had become a moment that demanded a reckoning.

Who Needs Friends charts McCarthy's journey over nearly ten thousand miles behind the wheel, following him on often-unexpected travels through Appalachia, the Mississippi Delta, the Chihuahuan Desert, the Rocky Mountains with one driving purpose: to reconnect. Along the way he talks to countless men about their male friendships, from cowboys and blues musicians to preachers and rootless teens. What began as a simple desire to catch up with a few friends turned into a deep exploration of the challenges and rewards that men experience in forming bonds with each other.

In McCarthy's own words, "It turns out that guys have a difficult time with friendship." But that's not the way it needs to be.

About the Author

Andrew McCarthy is the author of four books, Walking with Sam: A Father, a Son, and Five Hundred Miles Across Spain, Brat: An '80s Story, Just Fly Away, and The Longest Way Home -- all New York Times best sellers. He is an award-winning travel writer and served for a dozen years as an editor-at-large at National Geographic Traveler. Best known as an actor for the past four decades, Andrew has appeared in such iconic films as Pretty in Pink and Less Than Zero. He lives in New York.

Critical Reviews

"Who Needs Friends is a hopeful story about the pas­sage of time and friendship that, while unsci­entific, may inspire readers to pick up a phone and call someone. In doing so, McCarthy shows how to connect not only with others, but also with the fullest versions of ourselves."--Bookpage

"[F]ascinating and absorbing...The book is particularly compelling when McCarthy charts his own progress, recording the ups and downs of his grand tour and chronicling his mission 'to reclaim what I hope I haven't lost.' His travels take him - and us - to some rewarding places."--Christian Science Monitor

"...a poignant, life affirming look at American men yearning for closer bonds."--Publishers Weekly

"Who Needs Friends is a wonderful story, beautifully told. An important book about friendship, and loyalty, and men telling each other the truth most of all. When you finish it, you will want to reconnect with an old friend of your own, I know I did." --Mike Lupica, #1 New York Times Bestselling Author

"Thoughtful and well written--and a good prompt to call an old friend."--Kirkus Reviews

Publishing Information

Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
Pub date: 2026-03-24
Length: 320 pages

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