We Should All Be Birds: A Memoir

Brian Buckbee

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Book cover for We Should All Be Birds: A Memoir

We Should All Be Birds: A Memoir

We Should All Be Birds: A Memoir

Brian Buckbee

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On a spring evening in Montana, Brian Buckbee encounters an injured baby pigeon. Heartbroken after the loss of the love of his life and increasingly isolated by a mysterious illness that overtook him while trekking through Asia, Brian is unaware that this bird--who he names Two-Step--will change his life. Brian takes in Two-Step, and more injured birds, eventually transforming his home into a madcap bird rehabilitation and rescue center. As Brian and Two-Step grow closer, an unexpected kinship forms. But their paths won't converge forever: as Two-Step heals and finds love, Brian's condition worsens, and with his friend's release back into the world looming closer, Brian must decide where this story leaves him.

We Should All Be Birds follows Brian, unable to read or write due to a never-ending headache, as he dictates the end of his old life--as an adventurer, an iconoclastic university instructor, and endurance athlete--through his relationship with a pigeon that comes to define his present. Limited to dictation, Brian teams up with Carol Ann Fitzgerald, an editor who channels the details of his personal history to the pages. Raw and perceptive, delirious and devastating, We Should All Be Birds is an unflinching exploration of chronic illness, grief, connection, and the spectacular beauty of the natural world--and the humble pigeon. The surprising, heartwarming relationship between man and bird provides insight into what it means to love, to suffer, and to "never forget, even for a second, how big it all is."

Critical Reviews

A profound meditation on loneliness.... filled with compassion, courage, and curiosity. Haunted by memory and love, it radiates beauty. Lyrical passages about nature and traveling evoke the wonder of creation.... Readers will love this fascinating and wise work.-- "Library Journal, Starred Review"

We Should All Be Birds is an immersive tale of chronic life, in which a bird allows a man to love him, which allows the author to finally love himself. Even in pain.--Richard Louv, author of Last Child in the Woods

Nearly every page manages to prompt an emotion--laughter, tears, wonder... An extraordinary story full of humanity and life lessons.-- "Kirkus, Starred Review"

I loved every page of this book: Funny, sad, romantic, and full of pigeons--glorious but under-appreciated, mysterious yet near-at-hand, each an individual, their dramas unseen right under our noses. Yet for Buckbee, suffering from a broken heart and broken body, birds like the injured Two-Step fling open doors of enchantment, healing, and communion. He's right: We really should all be birds-but since we can't, the best remedy I can think of is this book.--Sy Montgomery, author of How To Be A Good Creature

We Should All be Birds is a beautifully intimate memoir about relentless love despite unrelenting pain. It's compulsively readable and unexpectedly reassuring in times that seem to have lost their footing. And yes, the birds are the real medicine. Especially one particular, peculiar little one.--Carl Safina, author of Alfie and Me: What Owls Know, What Humans Believe

Brian Buckbee has discovered a slower, more openhearted, humble stance toward living and creating, where small joy is in no way insubstantial, and where attention given freely--to the birds he cares for who ultimately care for him, and to the needs of body and spirit--creates unexpected forms of love and devotion.--Lia Purpura, author of All the Fierce Tethers

Brian Buckbee has sent us a series of gentle, funny, poignant, honest, and loving messages-in-a-bottle from the country of longterm illness and cross-species friendship. Reading We Should All Be Birds feels like stumbling into the serendipity of a conversation with a stranger that leaves you changed. With sweet lyricism, it accompanies you from darkness into connection. This story of a man's friendship with a pigeon serves as a reminder that living beyond yourself, entwined with the lives of other creatures, can save you when the human world fails to. It is a gift to spend time with Buckbee and his companion Two-Step.--Eiren Caffall, author of The Mourner's Bestiary

Reflective.... communion with nature is a means of coping with chronic illness and losses.-- "Foreword Reviews"

Poignant.... readers will likely sympathize with Buckbee's struggle against illness and emotional turmoil, the book's exploration of caregiving resonates.-- "Publishers Weekly"

Publishing Information

Publisher: Tin House Books
Pub date: 2025-08-05
Length: 256 pages

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