This book not only made me think about my friends in a different way, it also made me think about the kind of person I want to be.--Bridie Jabour, author of Trivial Grievances

[A] thoughtful, brilliant, and wholly comforting read.--Elfy Scott, author of The One Thing We've Never Spoken About

Yankovich focuses on enriching existing relationships--sending care packages, scheduling check-ins--rather than forming new ones, and gives tips on how to integrate friends into family and romantic circles.--Publishers Weekly

Research shows that after food and shelter, positive social connections with others is our greatest need. At a time of increased loneliness and disconnect, Friendship First is a breath of fresh air and inspiration to build, maintain, and renew friendships.--Emma Seppälä, PhD, Yale lecturer and author of The Happiness Track and Sovereign

This book honors our most significant relationships with the tender thoughtfulness of the best friend you've ever had.--Gina Rushton, author of The Parenthood Dilemma

Friendship First explores what so many of us have always suspected to be true: that our platonic relationships can yield as much love and happiness--and may require as much work--as our romantic ones. Yankovich has provided us with an approachable field guide to understanding, deepening, and appreciating some of the most beautiful and important bonds we share.--Caroline Moss, host of Gee Thanks, Just Bought It!

Friendship First is a powerful testament to the beauty and importance of platonic love. This book is perfect for anyone who wants to prioritize the friendships in their life--and become a better friend in the process.--Chelsea Fagan, author of The Financial Diet

[A] joyful, hopeful and considered book that will have you texting your friends in a hurry to tell them how much you appreciate them.--Lucinda Price, author of All I Ever Wanted Was to Be Hot

Reading Friendship First is a healing experience for anyone who's ever interacted with people. It will have you calling up your friends to tell them you appreciate them, reaching out to those you keep meaning to catch up with, and maybe even rekindling faded connections. A compassionate and urgent take on why friendships are vital, this book will help you realize that the greatest love story of your life is probably already around you. And if it isn't, read it again!!--Sable Yong, author of Die Hot with a Vengeance

After reading this uplifting book, you will never dream of ever taking your friends for granted again. Through research and moving stories that illuminate the beauty in every type of friendship, Gyan gently draws your attention to the ways that friends sustain, shape, and serve you. Our world would be a better, happier place if we nurtured our friendships according to Gyan's guidance.--Stephanie Harrison, author of New Happy

A SELF Well-Read Bookclub pick

"In Friendship First, journalist Gyan Yankovich takes a deep dive into the challenges and triumphs of friendships today. With a mix of vulnerable heart and scientific rigor, this book is perfect for anyone looking to understand their friendship landscape better.--Anna Goldfarb, author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections

Delves into everything from chosen families, to the power of showing up for the people who matter, to the use of language and its limits. . . . Whether readers pick up this book already equipped with a powerful network of social relationships or want to forge those deep friendships, they will find a friend in Yankovich, the kind of companion who shows up with honesty, empathy, and insights.--Library Journal, starred review

Publisher: Experiment

Pub date: 2024-09-10

Length: 240 pages