Memoirs of a Gay Shah: My Story of Family, Fame, and Becoming a King

Reza Farahan

New New
Book cover for Memoirs of a Gay Shah: My Story of Family, Fame, and Becoming a King
Image for variant 9781464218279
Book cover for Memoirs of a Gay Shah: My Story of Family, Fame, and Becoming a King
Image for variant 9781464218279

Memoirs of a Gay Shah: My Story of Family, Fame, and Becoming a King

Memoirs of a Gay Shah: My Story of Family, Fame, and Becoming a King

Reza Farahan

View full details

Description

He didn't fit the mold--so he made a throne instead.

At just four years old, Reza Farahan left Iran for what was supposed to be a quick family trip to Los Angeles. But while he was soaking up the California sun, revolution erupted back home, and Reza's short stay turned into permanent exile.

Caught between cultures, identities, and expectations, Reza was an outsider in every sense of the word. He was a half-Muslim, half-Jewish, gay Persian kid just trying to survive 1980s America--a place that saw him as a threat, even when all he wanted was to belong. But with an unapologetic spirit and bold personality, Reza was never destined to simply fit in. He was meant to shine.

Reza eventually became the larger-than-life, fan-favorite star of Bravo's Shahs of Sunset, where he served looks, shade, and cultural pride in equal measure. And now Reza is opening up about the journey that took him from closeted teen to reality TV royalty, from hiding his truth to owning every inch of his spotlight.

Heartfelt, hilarious, and deeply human, Memoirs of a Gay Shah is the story of how one outcast boy grew into a confident man by reclaiming every part of himself--his culture, his identity, his queerness--and decided to live not just authentically, but extravagantly.

Critical Reviews

"A candid self-portrait brimming with sass, personality, and the importance of family, identity, and culture." -- Kirkus

"Reza's story is one of courage, resilience, and unapologetic truth. By embracing ever part of who he is, he gives voice to communities too often pushed aside--Persian and queer--and shows what it means to live with pride and purpose. His journey is more than personal; it is a call to others to stand tall, claim their place, and be fully seen." -- Crystal King Minkoff, entrepreneur and former star of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

" Flamboyant, disarming, and frequently funny, Farahan's catalog of growing up and embracing the sometimes-contradictory aspects of his identity feels conspiratorial in the best way. Even readers who've never seen an episode of Shahs of Sunset will be charmed." -- Publisher's Weekly

"Memoirs of a Gay Shah is equal parts fabulous and fearless--full of heart, hilarity, and heritage. Reza doesn't just tell his story; he owns it." -- Heather Gay, New York Times bestselling author of Good Time Girl and star of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City

"From Beverly Hills drama to deep cultural trauma, Reza doesn't hold back. This book is a love letter to identity, survival, and saying YES to the most extra version of yourself." -- Cynthia Bailey, American model, actress, and longtime star of The Real Housewives of Atlanta

"Reza has always been honest to a fault and that makes for some very interesting stories to tell. Memoirs of a Gay Shah answers everything I've ever wanted to know about Reza--and a lot I didn't." -- Jeff Lewis, interior designer and star of Bravo's Flipping Out

"After knowing Reza for over a decade, I am so excited for everyone to see in detail the kind-hearted, honest, sometimes dramatic, and flipping funny person he is! Memoirs of a Gay Shah is pure entertainment!" -- Shannon Beador, longtime star of The Real Housewives of Orange County and wellness entrepreneur

"Integrity, kindness, and grit. That's how I'd describe my friend Reza's story." -- Dorinda Medley, author of Make It Nice and former star of The Real Housewives of New York City

"Reza invites us into both the glitzy and gritty chapters of his life. More than a reality TV star's memoir, this book is an anthem for anyone who's ever felt like an outsider. It's entertaining, eye-opening, and unforgettable. Memoirs of a Gay Shah is equal parts entertaining yet deeply reflective." -- Dr. Wendy Osefo, star of Bravo's The Real Housewives of Potomac

"Reza has always been bold, unapologetically authentic, and willing to share his truth with the world-and this memoir is a powerful reflection of that. He opens his heart in the most honest and vulnerable way. It's raw, inspiring, funny, and deeply moving, just like him. His voice has always broken barriers, and now his story will touch even more lives.

This book is more than a memoir--it's a gift to anyone who has ever struggled to be fully themselves. I feel so lucky to call him a friend and to witness him share his story with the world." -- Lilly Ghalichi, entrepreneur, attorney, and founder of Lilly Lashes

Publishing Information

Publisher: Sourcebooks
Pub date: 2026-04-07
Length: 224 pages

The Allstora Membership

Membership Perks:

  • Save 30% on all online store purchases
  • Exclusive access to author's content
  • You pay less, but authors still earn double

Membership Terms:

First Month: $0.00
Monthly price: $5.00
  • To access membership discount simply log in and add to cart, discount applied automatically.
  • One month free trial, cancel anytime. Membership renews on the 15th of each month.